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We illuminate this question here by an analysis of transcripts of qualitative interviews that one fro us Ford conducted in and with women students at an elite private university. The study from which we drew these interviews was focused on unwanted sex—everything from sex that students consented to but felt ambivalent about, to sex involving physical coercion. Our interest in this blog post is what Nude woman Reims learned from women whose experiences were not physically coercive, but were nonetheless difficult because of their awareness of their vulnerability to these three labels. Participants were recruited by a screening survey in two introductory sociology courses and by recruitment flyers Lokoing around campus. The screening survey asked questions to ascertain if the person had experienced unwanted sex.


In another example, the American Medical Association breathlessly released a study in with the headline "Sex and Intoxication More Common Among Women on Spring Break", intended to warn women about their "risky" behavior while on break — but there was nothing about the men the majority of these young women would supposedly be having all this drunken sex with. It has little to do with the of our sexual partners, or the way we dress or flirt, or if we take birth control or not.

Being afraid of more than one stigma Often, women were so aware of the kinds of pressures they were balancing that they laid out multiple fears in the same quotes. Not something I would have done normally. I'm not.

Respondent 7: Maybe. also you can't trust a hoe. Pick-Me: "I don't drink, smoke, or have sex with random boe like all the other females out there.

College women: seen as a “slut” if they have sex on a hookup, “bitch” or “prude” if they don’t

Have to be this in-between. Interviewer: What do you think that obligation is about? Sara Brown from Boston told me she was first called it at a pool party in the fifth grade because she was wearing a bikini. Respondent 7: Yea. For Loooing, a new study out of the University of Michigan showed that teen girls who "sext" are called sluts while boys who do the same remain free-from judgement.

Like, that whole label.

Growing Up Female with a Bad Reputationtold me that "a 'slut' is a girl or woman who deviates from norms of femininity. I feel like most girls are the same way, want to make guys like Lokoing. So I did try to do that [sex with Mike] and it was kinda terrible.

What makes a slut? the only rule, it seems, is being female

We illuminate this question here by an analysis of transcripts of qualitative interviews that one of us Ford conducted in and with women students at an elite private university. You do not need to wear something cumbersome; choose the casual dress to show the different side of you.

These women see themselves as walking a tightrope, and women often find balancing their need to avoid two images difficult. When multiple attackers videotaped themselves brutally raping an unconscious teen girl in Californiafor example — stopping to take dance breaks and find new objects to penetrate the young woman with — the first trial resulted in a hung jury because the defense argued Lookinng was promiscuous. the more promiscuous you are the.

This article is more than 6 years old What makes a slut? and specified that the study was looking for year olds with an But I don't think I ever said openly, I do not want to hookup up with you. Casual foor outfits make your look younger.

Interviewer: Like you want to please the man? it's okay to be a slut. Conclusion Our interviews with college women illustrate that women are quite aware of reputational consequences of having or not having sex. As always, women are sluts and men are, well, men.

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It seems the the only hard and fast rule is that you have to be a woman. Respondent Will he tell his friends lies about me Lokoing he is angry? Respondent 2: Yea. Just like, I felt kinda dirty. Respondent Yea. It would be like… like when he was trying to get me to lay down in bed. I did it because I generally wanted to do it for him.

And because it's meant to be more of an identity than a label, it's a term not easily shaken off. So "slut" or any of its variations is an accusation with power behind it. Guess men only go for hoes instead of real women. Respondent You wanna come off a certain way present yourself as easy going or someone nog is cool and down, but at the same time if you are not comfortable with stuff, also balancing that.

Looming I was feeling like it might be a good thing to try. Women's value and morality are closely — though wrongly — tied to their sexuality. I think more so, if I had sex with him I thought he would think I was easier for him [to sleep with] and stuff like that. And this is what is so confounding about the word "slut": it's arguably the most ubiquitous slur used against women, and yet it's nearly impossible to define.

The quotes that follow below are verbatim from these interviews. So I personally chose to have nt with him. Respondent 3: I felt like really — a lot of shame. I remember showering continuously.

Broader efforts to "reclaim" the word — via marches like SlutWalksfor instance — have largely failed. It's any of us, and all of us — especially those of us who step out of line in some way real or imaginary. Interviews were conducted in person with Lookinf women and lasted between 45 minutes and 2 hours. Her attacker was sentenced to 30 days in jail.

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